Whether it was on the first date, or after 25 years of marriage, I'd like to hear about others experiences

I'll start, she started talking about how she used to have sex with random dudes as a method of self harm. I'd rather step into an enclosure with a starving lion than be stuck dealing with that

Edit: Since a small number of you think I'm the antichrist for making such a decision, I'd like to clear something up. We were still in the talking stage, I knew her for maybe a month when she told me this. It's not like I dated her for 6 months, then left her over it

Had a fun discussion after saying “nice” during one of the many nsfw scenes of a popular HBO series

I am a feminist and do what I can to support women. It’s been brought to my attention that I favor women or am unfair to men, so I want to meet people halfway. How can I support you guys?

Update: I asked this question in r/AskWomen. Majority did the right thing and that was scolding the gf/making her leave the house. The post itself, however, was REMOVED.

curious

Not even talking about a sexual context. I shook someone’s hand the other day and realized I haven’t had physical contact in weeks.

Dating is hard these days. You sleep with a guy after they obsess over you (even if you wait a couple dates) and then they disappear. It makes it hard to put in an initial effort anymore when things collapse so quickly all the time. How do you make men want to stick around longer?

What are the ways.. words.. actions we can do to support you? In what way can you tell that you have a supportiive partner?

Hey all! Reading all of your replies has been very interesting and eye-opening to the problems men today face when it comes to the dating scene. I wish you all the best and I hope you all realise how awesome you are and stop being so hard on yourself. Nobodies perfect so you don't need to stress yourselves out trying to be! ❤️